𝐓here is the typical masculine man... and then there is the high capacity man. They do not differ in intention. They differ in load tolerance. The typical masculine man is organized around performance. He orients to structure, outcome, usefulness. He knows how to do. He knows how to endure. He knows how to hold position. His masculinity is functional— built to work, not to feel. So he confuses stoicism with grounding. He confuses restraint with maturity. He confuses control
